Friday, 27 December 2013

You'll never get what you want!

The trouble with personal goal setting or aims, desires, hopes is that we see the thing we want in our minds eye for momentary glimpses throughout our day, then we forget far too often, we lose faith and bring doubt into the mix when the goal does not materialise quick enough. If you want to achieve something you have to be prepared for long periods of faith, determined thinking and committed focus to that thinking.

Hugs, Allan

Saturday, 21 December 2013

Positive thinking doesn't work.

I meet many people who will tell me that positive thinking doesn't work or hasn't worked for them. I'll be perfectly honest it doesn't work if you think it doesn't, but it does work if you think it does.

Hugs, Allan

Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Know thy self.

Alignment with our true self and honouring our core values are a powerful combination when aiming at our hopes and dreams. Indeed, I do not think there is much can stop anyone achieving their desires so long as they have taken time to know self. Once a true knowledge of self is attained all the power in the Universe comes to ones aid including faith, self belief, persistence, determination, commitment and an all consuming passion to get things done.

Hugs, Allan

Monday, 16 December 2013

Time for self.

Take some time today to think for yourself, get out of the mental chains and mind patterns that usually determine your actions results. Take time to believe in yourself and your abilities, go confidently with strong belief that you are worthy of every goal.

Hugs, Allan

Saturday, 14 December 2013

Mind matters first.

There are many qualities required to assist us on a pathway to our desired successes and there is no denying that perseverance is one of them. Perseverance can mean physical effort but for me the most important work to persevere with is our mental attitude, our thinking. Quite simply, if our thinking is in order the physical perseverance will take care of itself. Mind matters first.

Hugs, Allan

Friday, 13 December 2013


As an unexplored continent, most are afraid to go there, into mind, to be with one's own thoughts, to look closely and explore deeply, to know the extent of one's fears, hopes and dreams, the real power within. It is so much easier to keep company with external realities, to become a great  avoider of personal responsibility and remove focus from the real work of finding ourselves in the vastness of self. Today: have a look inside, look at what you're thinking, listen to the voice which dictates, quieten the voice with practice, become calm and insert the words of the new you, supportive and nourishing words of encouragement and love.

Hugs, Allan

Thursday, 12 December 2013

Self support.

I don't think people give themselves enough credit or encouragement for their achievements, large and small. The majority focus far too much on what they didn't achieve or what went wrong. Yes we have to take stock of our mistakes and learn from them but we must also let them go and concentrate our focus on what we are doing well. Encouraging ourselves from inside our own head is essential, we have to build our self support system and recognise our incredible strengths, powers and gifts, and give ourselves deserved praise on our amazing efforts.

Hugs, Allan

Only 3%

It's certainly true that we may end up some place else if we don't aim anywhere specific. The trick to getting somewhere or something is to know what or where we want to be, do or have. So it makes sense to sit down and get particular about these aims/goals/desires. It is said that only 3% of people set goals and that the other 97% are helping them achieve their goals. If you want to take control of your destiny then start writing out your goals then get them vividly supported in imagination. You're now on your way into the goal setting percentage.

Hugs, Allan

Wednesday, 11 December 2013

Bite size peices

Think about what you want to be, do or have, that's your outcome goal. Now, ask yourself what tiny step you can take to move you in that direction. You're on the move. Simple.

Hugs, Allan

Friday, 15 November 2013

Friday, 1 November 2013

Happiness Mind

Happiness is a mindset that exists no matter where you are or what you're doing. So decide to be happy right now with what you have, where you are because if you can't then you will not be happy with anything else, anywhere else. You take your mindset with you.

Hugs, Allan

Thursday, 10 October 2013


It can be a challenge I know, but it is an essential ingredient of a successful life. Having people in our lives who boost us and assist us to grow and encourage us to go on when things go wrong.

Hugs, Allan

Monday, 23 September 2013

"You never get 'there', to that magical place called happiness, you never reach it. There is no circumstance or environment that holds your long term happiness. It exists right here in the 'now' the present as an attitude of mind, a mindset of gratitude, faith, hope and self belief. A confident certainty that all is well and life is good.

Hugs, Allan

Monday, 16 September 2013

Pick a direction and move yourself, slowly if you have to, but do it.

Hugs, Allan

Saturday, 3 August 2013


It can be quite daunting going down a new path, taking on a new challenge, especially when we don't have signs along the way. We think if we knew 'how', that would make it easier but sometimes we just have to know what it is we want as the end result and focus on that alone. We don't always have to know 'how', just 'why'.

Hugs, Allan

Tuesday, 30 July 2013

Prisoner of the Past

It's all about what can be done today and from now on. The past is done, stop repeating it in your head and giving it the power to imprison you.

Hugs, Allan

Monday, 10 June 2013

Sunday, 9 June 2013

Precious and Happy times.

Form the habit of thinking happy thoughts in every circumstance, this will in due course be your predominant mindset and nothing, I mean nothing will dampen the the positively deep sense of life satisfaction that pervades from within.

Hugs, Allan

Friday, 7 June 2013


Focus on the good in your life, even the tiniest of goods can move your thoughts into an attitude of gratitude which will assist your awareness away from predominant thoughts of problems and challenges. This can only be beneficial.

Hugs, Allan

Monday, 20 May 2013


Overwhelming thoughts of what might go wrong or fear of the unknown are common factors in the demise of great adventures. We too often fail to get out of the starting blocks because we overthink. As the great Jim Rohn stated below, you sometimes have to proceed with little planning and find your way as you go.

Hugs, Allan