<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939</id><updated>2012-01-26T06:47:59.767Z</updated><category term='career help'/><category term='birmingham'/><category term='manchester'/><category term='business/career goals'/><category term='scotland'/><category term='money problems'/><category term='career goals'/><category term='business goals'/><category term='entrepreneur'/><category term='positive'/><category term='best'/><category term='positive thinking'/><category term='goalsetting'/><category term='fulfilment'/><category term='Motivational Talks'/><category term='liverpool'/><category term='newcastle'/><category term='glasgow'/><category term='inspiration'/><category term='beliefs'/><category term='motivation'/><category term='self help'/><category term='personal development'/><category term='goal setting'/><category term='coach'/><category term='motivational speakers'/><category term='money goals'/><category term='direction'/><category term='easterhouse'/><category term='belfast'/><category term='scotland self help'/><category term='london'/><category term='life coaching'/><category term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>Success365, Author, Speaker and Coach</title><subtitle type='html'>Coaching, Presentations and Workshops</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>38</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-1208800218747967304</id><published>2011-12-28T22:21:00.000Z</published><updated>2011-12-28T22:21:14.908Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Keep at it, don't give up.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H8RueQDWCDc/TvuWElHsTSI/AAAAAAAAAJQ/ePDVK6j2jFk/s1600/319553_255982357776119_120684591305897_684998_853713988_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H8RueQDWCDc/TvuWElHsTSI/AAAAAAAAAJQ/ePDVK6j2jFk/s1600/319553_255982357776119_120684591305897_684998_853713988_n.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;‎"Our subconscious minds have no sense of humor, play&lt;br /&gt;no jokes and cannot tell the difference between reality&lt;br /&gt;and an imagined thought or image. What we continually&lt;br /&gt;think about eventually will manifest in our lives."&lt;br /&gt;~Robert Collier~&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1302044882" href="https://www.facebook.com/AllanSuccess"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-1208800218747967304?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Keep at it, don&apos;t give up.'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/1208800218747967304/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/keep-at-it-dont-give-up.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1208800218747967304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1208800218747967304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/keep-at-it-dont-give-up.html' title='Keep at it, don&apos;t give up.'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H8RueQDWCDc/TvuWElHsTSI/AAAAAAAAAJQ/ePDVK6j2jFk/s72-c/319553_255982357776119_120684591305897_684998_853713988_n.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-6027914502650883796</id><published>2011-12-21T15:55:00.002Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:12:49.379Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>You Are An Expression of Mind</title><content type='html'>"You have within your mind the most incredible capacity to extend yourself beyond any circumstance, situation or environment. It starts with imagination" Allan Wilson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Nxk-2kevMl0/TvIBPd8jWCI/AAAAAAAAAIs/Ghlxuq8wd40/s1600/imagesCASV5C0H.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Nxk-2kevMl0/TvIBPd8jWCI/AAAAAAAAAIs/Ghlxuq8wd40/s1600/imagesCASV5C0H.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Let your predominant thoughts raise you to new heights of achievement, construct a new mindset that is in keeping with a bright future" Allan Wilson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-75pGQzlB7Nc/TvIAzAEd7OI/AAAAAAAAAIk/TePCYq81YQ0/s1600/imagesCAIC39WG.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-75pGQzlB7Nc/TvIAzAEd7OI/AAAAAAAAAIk/TePCYq81YQ0/s1600/imagesCAIC39WG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-6027914502650883796?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='You Are An Expression of Mind'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/6027914502650883796/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/you-have-within-your-mind-most.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/6027914502650883796'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/6027914502650883796'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/you-have-within-your-mind-most.html' title='You Are An Expression of Mind'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Nxk-2kevMl0/TvIBPd8jWCI/AAAAAAAAAIs/Ghlxuq8wd40/s72-c/imagesCASV5C0H.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-1222144386353827806</id><published>2011-12-02T16:16:00.005Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:15:57.235Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Energy</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="body1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana;"&gt;Everything in The Universe is energy, the chair you are resting on, the air you breathe, the book you are holding and of course you. It all vibrates at varying frequencies, basic physics, correct? Well, when you think a thought whether negative or positive, you create an equal or corresponding feeling in your body which has a vibrational resonance, basically your body vibrates energetically, high exciting frequencies and low sluggish frequencies. The Law of Attraction states “That which is like unto itself is drawn” or quite simply “Like attracts like”. Your thoughts have an energetic frequency, and attract like a magnet that which is harmonious with your current thinking. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="body1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana;"&gt;An excerpt from "The Quick and Tiny Guide to a Great Big Life" &lt;span style="font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;Copyright © 2011 by Allan Wilson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-1222144386353827806?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/1222144386353827806/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/embracing-law-of-repetitive.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1222144386353827806'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1222144386353827806'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/12/embracing-law-of-repetitive.html' title='Energy'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-8999030179219955996</id><published>2011-11-07T15:20:00.001Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:17:06.132Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Joyaware</title><content type='html'>Can you hear yourself think over patterns of old?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All clutter and strain and echoes unwanted&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not once is it real, a focused illusion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gaining its power with intenseness of thought&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Directed by choice, see who is creating&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thoughts shape your past, your present your future&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let go of things done they don’t share what’s coming&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Internal turmoil, Make peace with your heart&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Realign on your pleasure and not so on pain&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take one tiny aspect and enlarge it with time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EfFdSLvycBQ/Trf22mTnSfI/AAAAAAAAAHw/zpBAPTaxTd8/s1600/mind.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EfFdSLvycBQ/Trf22mTnSfI/AAAAAAAAAHw/zpBAPTaxTd8/s200/mind.png" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perception will close on all as you wish&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your deepness shall follow then come as your guide&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stay firm to your outcomes with patience in mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These simple solutions are timeless unbound&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Greatness is gifted this limitless life.&lt;br /&gt;©Allan Wilson2011 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-8999030179219955996?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk' title='Joyaware'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/8999030179219955996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/11/joyaware.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8999030179219955996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8999030179219955996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/11/joyaware.html' title='Joyaware'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EfFdSLvycBQ/Trf22mTnSfI/AAAAAAAAAHw/zpBAPTaxTd8/s72-c/mind.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3910630827047936770</id><published>2011-09-27T11:49:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2011-09-27T11:49:09.501+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business goals'/><title type='text'>I deserve the best that life has to offer.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOGGER-youtube-video" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0" data-thumbnail-src="http://2.gvt0.com/vi/kGshtr0xKpo/0.jpg"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/kGshtr0xKpo&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" /&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF" /&gt;&lt;embed width="320" height="266"  src="http://www.youtube.com/v/kGshtr0xKpo&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3910630827047936770?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3910630827047936770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/09/i-deserve-best-that-life-has-to-offer.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3910630827047936770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3910630827047936770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/09/i-deserve-best-that-life-has-to-offer.html' title='I deserve the best that life has to offer.'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3783373339474513863</id><published>2011-09-17T14:32:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-09-17T14:52:29.083+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business goals'/><title type='text'>No Natalie I don't share my books ;-)</title><content type='html'>I've been asked many times about the books I've read, so I decided to list them here, it is not a&amp;nbsp;complete list but a reflection of some of the works which I feel assisted me most when I required it. Think and Grow Rich: Napoleon Hill----- The Power of Now: Eckhart Tolle----- A New Earth: Eckhart Tolle----- A Positive Mental Attitude: W Clement Stone/ Napoleon Hill----- Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway: Susan Jeffers----- End the Struggle and Dance with Life: Susan Jeffers----- The Celestine Prophecy: James Redfield------ The Secret of Shambala: James Redfield----- The Monk who sold his Ferrari: Robin Sharma----- Even Eagles need a Push: David McInally----- The Power of Positive Thinking: Norman Vincent Peale----- The Amazing Results of Positive Thinking: Norman Vincent Peale----- Practising the Power of Now: Eckhart----- No Excuses, I'm Doing It: Jay Rifenbary----- The Power of your Subconscious Mind: Dr&amp;nbsp;Joseph Murphy----- The Power of Intention: Wayne Dyer----- Believing is Seeing: Wayne Dyer------ Your Erroneous Zones: Wayne Dyer------ The Biology of Belief: Bruce Lipton----- You can Heal Your Life: Louise Hay----- The Spontaneous Healing of Belief: Gregg Braden----- You can if you Think you Can: Norman Vincent Peale----- The Secret: Rhonda Byrne---- Ask and It is Given: Abraham Hicks----- Wake up and Dream: Pat Mesiti----- What to do When you don't know what to do: Neil Eskillen----- Getting into The Vortex: Abraham Hicks---- The Law of Attraction: Michael Losier----- The Attractor Factor: Joe Vitale----- The trick to money is having some: Stuart Wilde----- The Whispering Winds of Change: Stuart Wilde----- The Promise of Energy Psychology: Donna Eden and David Feinstein----- The Cashflow Quadrant: Robert T Kiyosaki----- Tapping for Abundance: Carol Look----- Be your own Life Coach: Fiona Harrold----- Psycho Cybernetics: Maxwell Maltz----- Evolve Your Brain: Dr Joe Dispenza----- Change Your Life in 7 Days: Paul McKenna----- Creative Visualisation: Shakti Gawain----- I could do anything, if only I knew what it was: Barbara Sher----- Mindstore: Jack Black----- Personal Best: David Rock----- Self Esteem: Gael Lindenfield----- The Magic of Thinking Big: David Schwartz----- Unlimited Power: Anthony Robbins----- Awaken the Giant Within: Anthony Robbins----- What to say when you talk to yourself: Shad Helmstetter---- Working with Emotional Intelligence: Daniel Goleman----- You can be Happy No Matter What: Richard Carlson----- Your Body Doesn't Lie: Dr John Diamond---- Conversations With God: Neale Donald Walsh----- &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3783373339474513863?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3783373339474513863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/09/no-natalie-i-dont-share-my-books.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3783373339474513863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3783373339474513863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/09/no-natalie-i-dont-share-my-books.html' title='No Natalie I don&apos;t share my books ;-)'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-7919907160310194933</id><published>2011-08-27T09:24:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T09:32:32.292+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='best'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business goals'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Until one is committed there is always hesitancy,&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Concerning all acts of initiative and creation,&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;there is one elementary truth,&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;that the moment one definitely commits oneself&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;then providence moves to.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;All sorts of things occur to help one that &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;would never otherwise have occurred.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;A whole stream of events issues from the decisions,&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;raising in ones favour all manner of&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;unforeseen incidents&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;and meetings and material assistance, &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;which no man could have dreamt would have come his way.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;I have learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;W.H. Murray (mountaineer)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;object class="BLOGGER-youtube-video" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0" data-thumbnail-src="http://0.gvt0.com/vi/vMINkETAWuA/0.jpg" height="266" width="320"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/vMINkETAWuA&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" /&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF" /&gt;&lt;embed width="320" height="266"  src="http://www.youtube.com/v/vMINkETAWuA&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-7919907160310194933?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/7919907160310194933/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/httpyoutu.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7919907160310194933'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7919907160310194933'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/httpyoutu.html' title=''/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-7805272631021706276</id><published>2011-08-24T18:00:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-09-09T14:52:17.574+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Motivational Talks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='london'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birmingham'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='belfast'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='manchester'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='newcastle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='liverpool'/><title type='text'>Glasgow, Belfast, Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham and London.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;I am extremely privileged and absolutely delighted at the prospect of touring The UK in October with 3 incredibly talented and dynamic speakers. It's going to be all go and I can't say I'm concerned because it doesn't quite seem like work. We are headed up by Greg S. Reid the Co-author of "Think and Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold" who is flying in from The States, joining us will be Jeff Lestz, The CEO of Genistar and Bryce Redford my fellow countryman from Perth in Scotland. The Uk Tour starts In Glasgow on October 1st then moves to Belfast, Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham and London. Whew. All in the space of 8 energetic days.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"Turn Your Obstacles into Opportunities" and learn to embrace the challenges not avoid them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Gain strength where others see defeat and Success will follow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #2e0a08;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;img alt="" data-mce-src="https://evbdn.eventbrite.com/s3-s3/eventlogos/6039507/2020083123-2.jpg" height="200" src="https://evbdn.eventbrite.com/s3-s3/eventlogos/6039507/2020083123-2.jpg" width="135" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-7805272631021706276?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://threefeetfromgolduktour.eventbrite.com/?ref=ebtn' title='Glasgow, Belfast, Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham and London.'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/7805272631021706276/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/i-am-extremely-privileged-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7805272631021706276'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7805272631021706276'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/i-am-extremely-privileged-and.html' title='Glasgow, Belfast, Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham and London.'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-1633018829381058512</id><published>2011-08-23T15:42:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2011-08-23T15:42:29.983+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='career help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fulfilment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='direction'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Think and Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold</title><content type='html'>When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade Right? but what do you do when life gives you a hard time? Most folk give up and quit, but there is another way. Changing Your Thinking and Your Perception can have amazing life changing consequences.&lt;br /&gt;The age old question: “Is the glass half full or half empty?” depends upon your perspective of your world and your beliefs about it, but what if you could learn to adapt your view of the world and in doing so turn your current obstacles into opportunities, enabling you to shake off your mental shackles and reach for the stars.&lt;br /&gt;What if you could learn the secrets of success, the tried and tested methods of some of the most prolific achievers of ours and previous generations?&lt;br /&gt;Greg S. Reid, International Speaker, Filmmaker and Co-Author of “Think and Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold” has just that lesson in mind.&lt;br /&gt;Greg who will be heading up one of the most exciting and inspirational Tours of the UK with “Three Feet From Gold” which begins with Glasgow in October says “I’m thrilled at the prospect of our UK Tour and the opportunity to motivate and inspire as many people as possible to turn their obstacle into opportunities”&lt;br /&gt;In many ways this is a return to where “The Philosophy of Success” began over 100 years ago with Andrew Carnegie, one of Scotland’s most famous sons. Carnegie born in Dunfermline but then living in the U.S commissioned a young journalist Napoleon Hill to research the principles and methods utilised by the giants of industry and politics, the result some 20 years later was “The Law of Success in Sixteen Lessons” and “Think and Grow Rich” published in 1937.&lt;br /&gt;Greg’s work in “Three Feet From Gold” mirrors that journey and continues the quest for knowledge on the principles of modern success.&lt;br /&gt;“I had the opportunity to meet and question some of the world’s top entrepreneurs, athletes, humanitarians and business people. I asked them about their life lessons and their experience in overcoming the trials of life which stop most people in their tracks”&lt;br /&gt;The book contains their astonishing advice and incredible responses.&lt;br /&gt;The UK Tour represents an extension of the book; it offers Greg the chance to deliver his powerfully vibrant and motivational approach to obstacles and challenges. With a fan base which includes such luminaries as Past President Bill Clinton, Ex World Heavyweight Boxer Evander Holyfield and Dave Liniger Co-Founder of Re-Max, Greg delights in the message he so energetically conveys and states&lt;br /&gt;“All I want in life – is to give my life my all”&lt;br /&gt;The enduring legacy of one of Scotland’s most famous sons, Andrew Carnegie, continues to shine on the world stage with the recent printing of a new practical success book called “Think And Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold” co-authored by Greg S. Reid which emulates one of the most widely translated and globally respected “Personal Development” titles of our time.&lt;br /&gt;Greg S. Reid is a Filmmaker, Motivational Speaker, #1 best-selling and award winning author, entrepreneur, and the CEO of several successful corporations, who has dedicated his life to helping others achieve the ultimate fulfillment of finding and living a life of purpose. His other projects include The Millionaire Mentor, Positive Impact, and Three Feet from Gold and Napoleon Hill’s Road to Riches.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-1633018829381058512?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://threefeetfromgolduktour.eventbrite.com/?ref=ebtn' title='Think and Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/1633018829381058512/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/think-and-grow-rich-three-feet-from.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1633018829381058512'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/1633018829381058512'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/think-and-grow-rich-three-feet-from.html' title='Think and Grow Rich: Three Feet From Gold'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-5102622326767023883</id><published>2011-08-08T14:36:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:18:11.421Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Manifesting Your Reality</title><content type='html'>We're always creating/manifesting our lives as we go along, everything we are is a result of what we have thought as Marcus Aurelius said "A man's life is dyed by the colour of his thoughts". Accepting that where we place most of our focused attention and thought will become our manifested reality is a lesson to be learned and then adopted to help create the life we want. One of the simplest tips I have heard was from Wayne Dyer who said "We have to continuously contemplate ourselves as being surrounded by the conditions we wish to produce". We are already doing this but not at a level of awareness which brings great results, mostly outside of our conscious awareness. With some practice and concentrated or focused intent, we can start to "think" the thoughts necessary to build a more successful and designed future. Look at what you're thinking now, look at your results and see the truth of your primary focus then utilise the tip from above, become absorbed in the conditions of how you want it to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;img alt="" border="0" height="178" src="https://us1.admin.mailchimp.com/_ssl/proxy.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fgallery.mailchimp.com%2Fe3d962caaac56bb26c4bf7d2b%2Fimages%2F11326541353_CD7Z5.1.1.1.jpg" style="border: 0px currentColor; display: inline; height: auto; line-height: 100%; text-decoration: none;" width="138" /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;        &lt;img alt="" border="0" height="179" src="https://us1.admin.mailchimp.com/_ssl/proxy.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fgallery.mailchimp.com%2Fe3d962caaac56bb26c4bf7d2b%2Fimages%2FPresentation_July_2011_005.JPG" style="border: 0px currentColor; display: inline; height: auto; line-height: 100%; text-decoration: none; width: 275px;" width="170" /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;h1 class="h1" style="color: #202020; display: block; font-family: arial; font-size: 34px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 100%; margin: 0px 0px 10px; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #505050;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 18px;"&gt;          &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "Extraordinary You" and "Three Feet From Gold"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;My most recent work and extraordinary results in the field of manifesting, as many of you may know, was the creation of a dream collaboration with Ann Knox of The Truth Matters and Greg S.Reid the world renowned Co- author of "Three Feet From Gold" and Film maker of "Pass It On". &lt;a href="http://threefeetfromgolduktour.eventbrite.com/?ref=ebtn" style="color: #336699; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Gregs' UK Tour&lt;/a&gt; starts in October, at which I shall be a guest speaker. As you can imagine, this presents an incredible opportunity for me and I'm delighted to be involved with such an amazing and inspiring group of people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During the month of August, I will be working with a small select group of Coaching Clients and sharing with them the methods used to create these life changing results. I will be assisting them to be, do and have the life of their design.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-5102622326767023883?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk' title='Manifesting Your Reality'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/5102622326767023883/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/manifesting-your-reality.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5102622326767023883'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5102622326767023883'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/08/manifesting-your-reality.html' title='Manifesting Your Reality'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3738447590297173351</id><published>2011-05-26T13:53:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:19:37.224Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>The Story of Naci and T'naci</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;There were in ancient times two infants, orphaned from birth. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The two infants, who were twin boys, were left on the steps of the royal palace by their mother, who was wise beyond her years. One of the orphans was named Naci and the other was named T’naci. The two were identical in every way.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The orphaned twins were beautiful children. It was clear to the palace guards, even when they first found them, that these two infants possessed unusual qualities. When the king and queen – who were without children themselves – first saw the twins, they too knew that the infants were gifted. And so they took them into the palace and agreed to raise the orphan children as their own. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The only legacy left to each twin was a most unusual deck of twelve cards. And these unusual cards which each of them carried were also identical in every way.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The king and queen were overjoyed with the blessing of receiving the two infants and they raised them with all of the love and attention that they would have given to their own children.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The new parents decided to wait before revealing to the twins that they were a blessing that the king and queen had long prayed for. When the time was right they would tell them. And when Naci and T’naci became old enough at the age of twenty the king and queen brought their sons to them and told them of their birth.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;It was then that they gave each of their sons the special cards that had been carefully wrapped close to them when they were first found, twenty years before.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“Your first mother must have loved you very much,” the queen told them. “When she brought you to us, she also left two identical and most unusual decks of cards. On these cards are written, front and back, the choices you will have to make in the life that is in front of you.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;And then she said, in the most loving way, “These simple cards will guide you now more than the king or I could ever guide you through the life that awaits you. Take them, use them and always remember that we have always loved you and we have always wanted the best for you.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;And so Naci and T’naci left the comfort of their home to seek their fortunes.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;In the years that followed, Naci learned to read the cards his mother had left with him, but T’naci put them aside and went his way without seeking their counsel. And while Naci prospered, increased his knowledge and always seemed to do well, his brother T’naci floundered. From time to time they would meet and talk but there was a growing difference between them.&lt;span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“Why is it you do so well when I struggle and fail?” T’naci would ask.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“Perhaps it is because you have not listened to our mother,” Naci would reply. “Perhaps it is because you do not use the cards. I have learned to read each of them, each morning of every day and when I do things seem to go better for me. Why don’t you read our mother’s cards for yourself? If you do, perhaps things will go better with you.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;But T’naci did not. In time, Naci became well known and successful in his own right. But T’naci refused to follow the ideas that his mother’s cards inspired and his fortune fell to failure. While Naci prospered, T’naci fought to succeed and only failed worse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Within a few short years, it was time for the two brothers to return home to the palace of their parents. It was time for a new ruler to be named and one of them was to be the chosen one.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Both of them returned home at the appointed time and both were met with kind and loving joy from the king and queen. Both of them had always been thought to be special and they were received with all the affection that any parent could give. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;But there was a difference now. Naci had somehow succeeded in his life where T’naci had not. And T’naci could not understand why.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The day finally came for the king and queen to declare that there would be a new wise ruler in the land. It was a difficult day for all of them. After all, both sons had been raised in the same way. Both of them had been given the same education. And both of them had been given every possible chance to succeed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The question that weighed heavily on the minds of the king and the queen and all of the royal advisors was, “Why has one son succeeded while the other son has not?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;It was not until they all gathered together at Royal Announcement Ball that they were to learn the answer. As you might suspect, in their most caring way, the king and queen announced that Naci was named heir to the throne.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“Why,” T’naci asked, “why did my brother gain the throne when in every way we are the same? What did he do that was so different from me?” And it was at the same Royal announcement Ball that Naci gave the answer.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Naci spoke to the gathered council in a firm, strong voice. He said, “Many years ago my mother, for good reason, left me on the steps of this palace. And in the basket that held me, she left me a gift. The gift was wrapped in a small cloth and written on the cloth were the words, “This is the only gift, beyond my love for you, that I can give you. Take it and when it is time, use this gift to create the life that I would have wished for you.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“Wrapped in that cloth was a deck of cards that my mother had written in her own hand. On each card was a challenge, and on the other side of each of those precious cards was a choice. I am here today because of those simple cards and the choices they present to me.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;And then in the same clear, strong voice, young Naci read what his mother had written on the cards many long years before.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the first card are written the words, CHOOSE YOUR STRENGTH. On the other side of the same cars are the words &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am strong &lt;/b&gt;and then the words &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am not strong.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the second card is written the challenge, CHOOSE YOUR HONESTY. On the other side of that card are the words &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am honest&lt;/b&gt; and then the words &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am not honest.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The third card says, CHOOSE YOUR BELIEF IN YOURSELF. The other side of the card says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I believe in myself&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not believe in myself.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The fourth card says, CHOOSE YOUR GOAL AND DIRECTION. On the back of the card it says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I have chosen my goal and direction and I know what it is.&lt;/b&gt; It also says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I have not chosen my goal and direction.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the fifth card are written the words CHOOSE TO ACCEPT OTHERS AS THEY ARE. On the back it says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I accept others as they are &lt;/b&gt;and then the words &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not accept others as they are.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The sixth card says CHOOSE TO MAKE YOUR DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF.&lt;span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;The other side of this most special card says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose to make my decision for myself,&lt;/b&gt; and it also adds the words, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not choose to make my decisions for myself.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the seventh card the words say, CHOOSE TO ALWAYS BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. On the other side of the seventh card is written. &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am responsible for my own actions&lt;/b&gt; and the words; &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am not responsible for my own actions.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the eighth card is written the challenge CHOOSE RIGHT FROM WRONG and it is followed by the words on the second side of the card &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I always do my best to choose right from wrong&lt;/b&gt; and that is followed by the second phrase, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not choose to choose right from wrong.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The ninth card says, CHOOSE TO WORK FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN and on the other side of this card is the words, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I always choose to work for what I believe in &lt;/b&gt;and then the words, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not make the choice to work for what I believe in.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The tenth card reads, CHOOSE TO LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES and on the back of the card is the phrases, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose to learn from my mistakes &lt;/b&gt;and &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose not to learn from my mistakes.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“On the eleventh card are the words, CHOOSE TO LOVE AND BE LVOED and on the back of the card it says &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose to love and be loved&lt;/b&gt; followed by a second choice, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose not to love and be loved.&lt;/b&gt;”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;“The twelfth card is perhaps the most important of these simple cards. It says CHOOSE IN EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR LIFE. The other side of this card says, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I choose to choose&lt;/b&gt; and that is followed by the words, &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;I do not choose to choose&lt;/b&gt;.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;And then young Naci said, “These are the words which my mother left me. These are the words which I have chosen to live by. These twelve simple choices have served me well. With them, as your servant, I hope to serve you well. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Now, Read their names backwards.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Taken from "What to say when you talk to yourself" by Shad Helmstetter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3738447590297173351?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3738447590297173351/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/05/story-of-naci-and-tnaci.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3738447590297173351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3738447590297173351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/05/story-of-naci-and-tnaci.html' title='The Story of Naci and T&apos;naci'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-5844352399559389128</id><published>2011-02-18T14:04:00.005Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:20:07.857Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>What Is Your Estimate Of Self? Part 2</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Healthy Self Esteem:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Healthy high self esteem is what can best be described as having a high &lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iEnI6rwX-DY/TV7jdu_IXVI/AAAAAAAAAGM/WN1cQjzM9NY/s1600/love+yourself.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="139" j6="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iEnI6rwX-DY/TV7jdu_IXVI/AAAAAAAAAGM/WN1cQjzM9NY/s200/love+yourself.bmp" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;degree of self worth, a high value and respect for ourselves as well as a strong belief in our abilities. We see ourselves as competent and able; we have a positive outlook and a positive attitude toward ourselves and are less anxious about the future. We are confident without being obnoxious and we handle criticism fairly, we assert ourselves without being uncaring to others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Beliefs:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;High self esteem is generated from our beliefs about ourselves, which are learned from infancy. It may have come from parental high self esteem or a supportive school climate. Just like low self esteem it affects our decisions and influences our choices throughout life. Having high self esteem is now known to act as a “social vaccine” and can assist us to bounce back and remain upbeat and balanced through troubling times. Nathaniel Brandon P.H.D says “Positive self esteem is the immune system of the spirit, helping an individual face life problems and bounce back from adversity”. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It's visible:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Healthy high self esteem is displayed externally with a strong posture and head and eyes directly in front. There is a vitality and enthusiasm in the body movements with congruency in facial expressions such as a warm friendly smile and a confident glow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The need for Balance:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately having unhealthy high levels of self esteem also known as “high self esteem disorder” can be as detrimental to our life path as low self esteem. It is now widely accepted that many criminals have unrealistically high levels of self esteem which is exhibited as an exaggerated sense of entitlement – expecting much from many situations, including bullying and stealing or placing aggressive demands on others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Helpful Tips to Follow&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://connect.facebook.net/en_US/all.js#xfbml=1"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;fb:send font="arial" href="www.success365.co.uk"&gt;&lt;/fb:send&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-5844352399559389128?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/5844352399559389128/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/what-is-your-estimate-of-self-part-2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5844352399559389128'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5844352399559389128'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/what-is-your-estimate-of-self-part-2.html' title='What Is Your Estimate Of Self? Part 2'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iEnI6rwX-DY/TV7jdu_IXVI/AAAAAAAAAGM/WN1cQjzM9NY/s72-c/love+yourself.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-626285033398412508</id><published>2011-02-09T13:26:00.006Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:22:17.365Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>What Is Your Estimate Of Self? Part 1</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;Self esteem is the value we assign to ourselves, the degree to which we love and take care of ourselves, the respect we have for ourselves and an external indicator of our personal worth. Our esteem or our estimate of ourselves can be high or low depending upon what we feel about ourselves in any number of circumstances or environments. Our beliefs about ourselves and what we are capable of are learned from birth, many of these early beliefs are the foundations for the ways we perceive ourselves to be throughout our lives and positively or negatively affect our self esteem. Therefore self esteem is a learned state of mind and can be coached from poor to healthy states.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Low Self Esteem:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;Low self esteem manifests itself in many guises including poor or low self worth, feelings and thoughts of ourselves as being undeserving and unimportant. We distrust ourselves and are indecisive and unassertive, we fear being wrong or making mistakes and focus all our efforts on reinforcing our weaknesses and inabilities. We talk ourselves down and constantly undermine any successes as “luck” or “that wasn’t like me”. These self deprecating beliefs and words evidence themselves in our attitude and behaviour in our daily lives; avoiding any circumstance that might stretch or pressure us for fear that we may fail leading to criticism which we cannot tolerate. Approval is high on our agenda and we will often put others needs before our own no matter the personal cost.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Perceived flaws&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;“Recent studies have shown that contrary to popular opinion, people with low self esteem are always very sure of themselves. This manifests in their conviction that they are worthless and inadequate”. Mark Tyrell, Co author of the Self Confidence Trainer offers this procedure for raising low self esteem; “help them be less sure of themselves by countering the evidence regarding their worthlessness. This evidence needs to emerge subtly, arguing with someone who is so sure of themselves will only break rapport. They need proof that unsettles their certainty that they are so “defective”.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Uncommon knowledge&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"&gt;It should be noted that the common belief that confidence and high self esteem are to be found residing happily side by side is not necessarily true. It is possible to be low in self esteem but be high in confidence, many well known celebrities spring to mind including Marilyn Monroe, Princess Diana and Michael Jackson. So having confidence and public adulation is no guarantee of high levels of self esteem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;While the underlying dynamics of low self esteem are anger, self loathing and low self worth it can also be displayed superficially as arrogance and boastfulness combined with acts of denigration or manipulation and intimidation of others. This is known as false self esteem or neurotic pride which is a sense of personal value based on achievements, power and status or influence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Magic thinking patterns&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This dislike and mistrust of ourselves is a learned process developed from many years of negative feedback, where we have become more aware of our weaknesses and shortcomings. As a result we continue to focus on every little perceived flaw and take little or no notice of any successes. We will continually filter and sieve through our thoughts and actions to find the evidence to support these negative beliefs about ourselves and the cycle will go on until constructively disputed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130; font-size: large;"&gt;Healthy Self Esteem to Follow.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" h5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-626285033398412508?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/626285033398412508/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/what-is-your-estimate-of-self.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/626285033398412508'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/626285033398412508'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/what-is-your-estimate-of-self.html' title='What Is Your Estimate Of Self? Part 1'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-7952409195598147719</id><published>2011-02-02T16:25:00.003Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:22:48.540Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Jack Canfield On Using EFT with the Law of Attraction</title><content type='html'>&lt;iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="295" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/rY5MCf_A9IU?fs=1" width="480"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-7952409195598147719?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/7952409195598147719/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/jack-canfield-on-using-eft-with-law-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7952409195598147719'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7952409195598147719'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/02/jack-canfield-on-using-eft-with-law-of.html' title='Jack Canfield On Using EFT with the Law of Attraction'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/rY5MCf_A9IU/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3401953483345623289</id><published>2011-01-27T16:02:00.003Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:23:56.132Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Knowledge v Imagination</title><content type='html'>Albert Einstein said "Imagination is more powerful than knowledge because knowledge is limited but imagination encircles the globe" What is the difference between you and those you admire who are achieving great things? There isn't any major differences that cannot be learned or adopted. The use of our imagination in reaching any desirable outcome is a major contributor to a worthy aspiration or outcome. Many of the worlds most successful people in medicine, invention, discovery, business, sport, showbiz have all made mention of their use of this creative force. Thomas Eddison, Henry Ford, Andrew Carnegie, Nelson Mandela, Michael Jordan, Roger Bannister and countless others have been documented as stating how, why and when they have utilised the power of creative visualisation, that is to say using the imagination to create a desired picture of some future event. Thomas Eddison had a dark room where he went to allow his imagination to roam free, in a process which brought him many answers to assist in his incredible inventions. Andrew Carnegie would sit quietly on his bed in an upright position each night just before sleep using his imaginative powers to construct the day ahead.&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure you will remember as a child, how you played with imaginary friends and sold imaginary groceries from your imaginary store or imagined you were the leader of the infantry about to bravely face the enemy. As we grow up we learn to embrace "reality", and our reliance on using imagination as a constructive and indeed necessary procedure for helping us create physical goals is pushed aside in favour of what we have learned, or now perceive to be real.&lt;br /&gt;The imaginative process for goal setting takes little physical effort but takes time to master, simply because we have grown unaccustomed to it's alternative use. Practice does make perfect and in time it will once again become second nature to rely upon this rich source of creativity. Use your imagination to create your ideal scenario in relationships, career, finance, health and visit this imaginary scenario at least 3 times per day with one visit just before sleep. It will take some mental effort as your usual habits of thought will try to derail the process. Invite the use of all your senses into this imaginary scene and create the perfect picture with sounds, visuals and feelings. Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between real or imagined and will take you at your word in due course that this is real, bringing to you the physical manifestation of your desire. &lt;br /&gt;Much of your life experience has been created this way, outside of your conscious awareness. Everything you see around you was once a thought. Everything. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless." Jamie Paolinetti&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere."&lt;br /&gt;Albert Einstein&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will." George Bernard Shaw&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.success365.co.uk/p/free-downloads.html"&gt;READ MORE HERE&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" s5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/PositivelyAlive"&gt;&lt;img border="0" s5="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3401953483345623289?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Knowledge v Imagination'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3401953483345623289/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/knowledge-v-imagination.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3401953483345623289'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3401953483345623289'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/knowledge-v-imagination.html' title='Knowledge v Imagination'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3840788694011877199</id><published>2011-01-19T13:23:00.001Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:24:55.345Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>External Non Sense</title><content type='html'>There was some doubt as to the exact date but&amp;nbsp;Monday the 17th of January was named as the most depressing day of the year. It's a Monday, it's time for&amp;nbsp;a reality check at the bank account after the Festive overspend, it's still dark and cold for most of the day. Now, I'm not too sure who conducted this survey or the countless previous ones and I don't know who was surveyed. As many of you know, I post many quotes and positive verse which I hope inspires and moves people to action. I noticed that many people contributed their own&amp;nbsp;quotes which&amp;nbsp;were upbeat&amp;nbsp;and positive yesterday and many people mentioned "the depressing day" headline. I noted as the day went on and into the afternoon that more and more people started to take&amp;nbsp;heed of the date and the effect it had on many of the posts thereafter&amp;nbsp;was very noticeable.&lt;br /&gt;This was a very clear indication of how the very great majority of people allow their reality to be&amp;nbsp;affected by external influences and are only too willing to drop their awareness guard to adopt or buy into a created, non existant and very false state of mind which holds no truth for them. In so doing they have&amp;nbsp;unwittingly given away their very own personal&amp;nbsp;power&amp;nbsp;in exchange for a structure which has no&amp;nbsp;truth for them except the meaning they want to give it&amp;nbsp;i.e "the most depressing day" "I must be as&amp;nbsp;depressed and fed up&amp;nbsp;as every one else".&lt;br /&gt;There is no denying that there are life challenges and maybe money and career&amp;nbsp;problems but they existed on Sunday as well as Tuesday. What I'm saying is this, that we attach meaning to everything, we perceive things as we are. &lt;br /&gt;You get to decide how you feel at any time and in any given situation or circumstance, it's that simple. Nothing, and I mean nothing, has any power over you unless you accept it. Or as Og Mandino said&lt;br /&gt;"Nothing external can have any power over you unless you permit it"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.meetup.com/Positively-Alive-Glasgow-Scotland-UK/"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3840788694011877199?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3840788694011877199/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/external-non-sense.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3840788694011877199'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3840788694011877199'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/external-non-sense.html' title='External Non Sense'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s72-c/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-6837780431085276128</id><published>2011-01-09T11:34:00.005Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:26:42.584Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>As you think........</title><content type='html'>Dr Joseph Murphy states in his highly acclaimed book “The power of your subconscious mind" that " the world within creates the world without". So whatever is impressed upon the subconscious mind and dropped into its realm by conscious reasoning or repetitive self talk, whether it be truth or not, and thoughts in alignment with our beliefs, are stored and utilised in our everyday experience of life. Events, conditions and acts are produced by our subconscious mind in reaction to our thoughts." In other words we see things not as they are but as we are" ( Anais Nin). Beliefs as such are a perspective, a window through which we view the world uniquely, rightly or wrongly.&lt;br /&gt;We are constantly processing thought; around 2 billion pieces of information are processed by our senses every second, 95% of it outside our conscious awareness and most of this goes unchallenged. It's at this point we can raise awareness by providing a challenge, should any thoughts be disempowering. Our subconscious is extremely sensitive to the thoughts and images we habitually entertain in our conscious mind and our beliefs are built here in accordance with these predominant thoughts. With this in mind it is of great&lt;br /&gt;importance that we feed ourselves good "mindfood" As our subconscious takes us literally at our word it is wise to use affirming supportive language and encourage harmonious life ward thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;For example, should you nurture predominant thoughts of lack or poverty in your conscious mind this will be played out in the physical realm as effect born of your desire to honour the subconscious belief, as would the opposite be true if you had thoughts of wealth and abundance.&lt;br /&gt;By watching and looking at our thoughts, that is to say, raising our awareness of our conscious thought by listening in to our self talk and being vigilant in what and who we listen to and who we spend our time with, we can support or challenge the effectiveness of our beliefs "Change your thoughts, and you change your destiny" says Joseph Murphy. And as Wayne Dyer challenges "Taking charge of yourself begins with awareness".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.success365.co.uk/p/free-downloads.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: large;"&gt;This is your life, take charge now. Read More.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Positively-Alive/125700164161538"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" n4="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s200/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg" width="66" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.meetup.com/Positively-Alive-Glasgow-Scotland-UK/"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-6837780431085276128?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/6837780431085276128/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/as-you-think.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/6837780431085276128'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/6837780431085276128'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2011/01/as-you-think.html' title='As you think........'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s72-c/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3640007514479816610</id><published>2010-12-30T12:26:00.002Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:27:42.695Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Dr. Wayne Dyer &amp; Dr. Bruce Lipton, Pt.1</title><content type='html'>&lt;iframe frameborder="0" height="295" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ylmwoJDYGjk?fs=1" width="480"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3640007514479816610?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3640007514479816610/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/12/dr-wayne-dyer-dr-bruce-lipton-pt1.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3640007514479816610'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3640007514479816610'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/12/dr-wayne-dyer-dr-bruce-lipton-pt1.html' title='Dr. Wayne Dyer &amp; Dr. Bruce Lipton, Pt.1'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/ylmwoJDYGjk/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3453727586662704963</id><published>2010-12-17T10:03:00.003Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:28:11.631Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Self Talk</title><content type='html'>Our self talk can be constructive or destructive and as we progress through our day, whether we are alone or in company, we are forming opinions, we are answering asked and unasked questions, predicting there outcome, we have imaginary conversations and arguments, we go over old situations in our minds, all self talk. According to Shad Helmstetter in his book "What to say when you talk to yourself" It is estimated by Behavioural Psychologists that as much as 77% of what we think or talk to ourselves about on a regular basis is negative. That is to say that we are criticising, condemning, complaining, ridiculing and generally bringing ourselves down with our habitual thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;Of course not all programming has led to limiting beliefs; we have been told how well we've done, received congratulations and been rewarded, all be it, judged by or compared to someone else's standards and what they believed was best for us. Such encouragement has motivated us to new challenges and led us to excel at many things increasing our confidence in many areas and assisting us to attain new levels of achievement.&lt;br /&gt;Most people know when something has to change in their lives but very few are aware that they have the internal power to adopt and embrace new ways of doing things, which essentially begins with new thinking. Limiting beliefs and old conditioning are at the very core of the problem. Unfortunately most people are likely to externalize their challenges and blame someone or something in their environment. Whilst this is extremely easy to do, it serves no purpose in the long term. Lack of fulfillment and feelings of being trapped bring many unwanted side effects such as anxiety and stress. Challenges have to be weighed up and put under the microscope to decide if it would be better to carry on, encumbered with a life out of kilter or if it would be worth trying something new as a shot in the dark.&lt;br /&gt;Recognition of these learned limits and unhealthy practices is key to gaining clarity and accepting personal responsibility, with a view to travelling a more fulfilling path on the way to a self defined and independent future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" n4="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s200/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg" width="65" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.meetup.com/Positively-Alive-Glasgow-Scotland-UK/"&gt;&lt;img border="0" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3453727586662704963?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3453727586662704963/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/12/self-talk.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3453727586662704963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3453727586662704963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/12/self-talk.html' title='Self Talk'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s72-c/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-2756579161338559579</id><published>2010-11-24T15:07:00.008Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:28:51.548Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Alpha/Theta, Utilize What You've Got!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;It's been mentioned many times recently by clients and audiences that quite a few people suffer from lack of sleep, they frequently turn backwards and forwards during the course of the night, thoughts of the day ahead and what needs to be achieved. They reference the day that's just passed, analysing meetings, discussions and points of view, maybe if I'd said this or done that etc.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;Keeping yourself awake in this manner is&amp;nbsp;incredibly counterproductive, it is stressful, it leaves you feeling jaded, it does not solve anything, it can make things worse.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;My suggestion, which I hope you will follow is this:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;Upon waking in the middle of the night, your body is still lethargic, your brainwave frequency is still slow somewhere between 5-14 cycles per second. You are between daydream state and light sleep, this is considered to be a fantastic time to add new ideas into your mind, positive ideas. An ideal time to recite your positive goals and programme them deep into the subconscious part of your mind. The left logical, reasoning part of your mind is not as alert and less likely to present any sustainable&amp;nbsp;argument, which it certainly would in Beta Waves or wide awake state.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;So next time you wake and decide to stress yourself out, stop and think about achieving your GOALS by constantly repeating them as affirmations&amp;nbsp;to yourself, and I assure you, you&amp;nbsp;will soon be back in the land of nod with the added benefit of your desires, hopes and dreams&amp;nbsp;being subliminally dropped into&amp;nbsp;the realms of your subconscious.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" ox="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s200/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg" width="66" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/URSUCCESS365" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" ox="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0pPWnwMoI/AAAAAAAAAEA/h-QWUYmas14/s1600/FB+LOGO+for+MY+BLOG.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.meetup.com/Positively-Alive-Glasgow-Scotland-UK/" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" ox="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0qBft97CI/AAAAAAAAAEE/aWqkP8QEZww/s1600/MEETUP+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.bmp" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="border: currentColor;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-2756579161338559579?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/2756579161338559579/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/alphatheta-utilize-what-youve-got.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2756579161338559579'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2756579161338559579'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/alphatheta-utilize-what-youve-got.html' title='Alpha/Theta, Utilize What You&apos;ve Got!'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TO0wP7uOwEI/AAAAAAAAAEI/nvYlRQhVoeg/s72-c/PA+LOGO+for+my+BLOG.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-7888157890450392349</id><published>2010-11-16T11:47:00.003Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:29:54.515Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>In the beginning</title><content type='html'>It's&amp;nbsp;been over&amp;nbsp;10 years since I started this particular chapter of my life, a chapter that has brought many changes, most created consciously, some attracted subconsciously. &lt;br /&gt;Let me explain: &lt;br /&gt;I had to change, I knew I wanted something more from life as opposed to what I was receiving or creating back then. I was stressed, anxious, angry and irresponsible, every one else was to blame for any and all my predicaments and challenges. My mind was in a whirl, no direction and absolutely no idea how to get there.&lt;br /&gt;Change came in stages and still does, it's a lifetime journey, not a weekend event. Most people want instant results, they want a dream to come true, a desire, an outcome, to be, do, and have something that they currently are not being, doing or having, and are prepared to just dream ocassionally until the left logical reasoning side of the brain raises it's doubtful voice and interjects with all the negative reasons in the world "why" you can't. It takes commitment of thought, it requires brain training, it means raising awareness, it means self study, it means constant feedback and learning. &lt;br /&gt;Is it worth it? Personally, I wouldn't go back to my old&amp;nbsp;"stinking thinking" habits, I love the new life outlook and&amp;nbsp;perspective&amp;nbsp;that I have, I love the endless possibilities, the opportunities, the learning, the feedback. I love the renewed confidence, higher self-esteem, I love the new friends I've met along the way. &lt;br /&gt;Most of all, I love the opportunity to communicate my lessons and experiences&amp;nbsp;to&amp;nbsp;help others overcome their life challenges and embrace limitless possibilities of their own.&lt;br /&gt;If there is one piece of advice I could offer to anyone thinking&amp;nbsp;that there is something more to life but they do not know where to start, it is this. "Your success in life is not based upon what has happened in the past but what can happen in the future" Unknown.&lt;br /&gt;Your life is just that, your life, to do with as you wish, encumbered only by your own limitations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;&lt;img class="rg_hi" data-height="26" data-width="100" height="26" id="rg_hi" src="http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTAdLl7rLm886rCId6BqTXagUe2pJ_ZITMxT6jUkcsJBgq-qzOX" style="height: 26px; width: 100px;" width="100" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.meetup.com/Positively-Alive-Glasgow-Scotland-UK/"&gt;&lt;img class="rg_i" data-sz="f" height="213" id="QAE0FopcQuS9rM:l" onload="this.style.display='inline';" src="data:image/jpg;base64,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" style="display: inline; height: 58px; width: 87px;" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="border: currentColor; clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-7888157890450392349?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/7888157890450392349/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/in-beginning.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7888157890450392349'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/7888157890450392349'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/in-beginning.html' title='In the beginning'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-4639368955163437821</id><published>2010-11-08T12:35:00.002Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:32:24.531Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Excerpt from "Embracing The Law Of Repetitive Contemplation"</title><content type='html'>I don’t wish to be defeatist or pessimistic so early on in this workbook but experience has taught me that a very large proportion of those who attend Coaching workshops or attend Personal Development seminars rarely stay the course. Staying the course means affecting change and taking action, sometimes over long periods of time, in fact if truth be told over a lifetime.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many authors, speakers and presenters make big claims and promise to change your life in 7 days, or offer you the most amazing 21 day secret that will unleash your power and catapult you toward the life of your dreams, with cash galore and all the trappings of wealth and status. It’s little wonder that many people feel deflated and look upon themselves as failing when the promises of the package fail to deliver.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m not saying don’t dream or think big or search for a better life or approach to life, far from it, I’m advocating that you take all these tools, techniques, modalities, books, seminars and workshops and get committed to action. Consistent, persistent action based on what you have learned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It does not need to be massive steps or great big leaps of faith. It can be simple, believable realistic steps, so long as you are taking action to affect your changes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m going to partner you through this book and assist you to take forwarding action which is right for you and you alone. Everyone at their own pace. So avoid comparing how you are progressing, it will only weaken you if you share with someone who likes to bite off great big lumps of achievement. There is no right or wrong, just different choices.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Calibri&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Allan Wilson2010©&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-4639368955163437821?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Excerpt from &quot;Embracing The Law Of Repetitive Contemplation&quot;'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/4639368955163437821/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/excerpt-from-live-life-you-want-now.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/4639368955163437821'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/4639368955163437821'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/excerpt-from-live-life-you-want-now.html' title='Excerpt from &quot;Embracing The Law Of Repetitive Contemplation&quot;'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3569396714342086359</id><published>2010-11-01T15:34:00.001Z</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:33:32.673Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Failure way to Success</title><content type='html'>I know it's hard and very difficult to understand but yes we do have to sometimes get it wrong on our way to getting it right. Seems like a catch 22, especially if your mindset is structured to believe that making mistakes is not a good thing.&lt;br /&gt;Personally, I've made many mistakes and taken some painful wrong turns in my life to date, I would honestly say, yes it is difficult and there have been times when I feel like giving up ever trying anything again. It must be said however, that I don't think I can stop trying the new and unknown, no matter how challenging. &lt;br /&gt;Giving way to the&amp;nbsp;worry and anxiety which rises from standing still, accepting and tolerating what life throws at you and succumbing to lifes twists and turns, and becoming reactionary to life as opposed to creating and building your own destiny also takes guts, some people are happy this way. &lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately the majority of lifes complainers are the very ones who sit back and "wait for God" while bemoaning their lack of fulfilment. Harsh? yes, but that's my experience.&lt;br /&gt;Truth is, we're always off course seeking feedback, just like an airplane. It's&amp;nbsp;our choice&amp;nbsp;if we&amp;nbsp;want to fly or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I'll tell you the guaranteed recipe for success, double your rate of failure" Thomas Watson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3569396714342086359?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Failure way to Success'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3569396714342086359/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/failure-way-to-success.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3569396714342086359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3569396714342086359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/11/failure-way-to-success.html' title='Failure way to Success'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-8657922973763605668</id><published>2010-10-21T14:25:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:34:58.399Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Our insatiable desire to beat ourselves up.</title><content type='html'>I work with people from many backgrounds, male, female, black, white, tall, thin, small, and on and on. There is something that comes through constantly, even with the most self assured clients. We have the most amazing capacity to berate ourselves and beat up on ourselves in the most glorious and ingenious ways. &lt;br /&gt;We don't congratulate or praise ourselves on&amp;nbsp;the good, we move on too quick, we do't go back there to our good achievements for support or help or to look at how well we've done in the past, get feed back from the positives or build new ways forward,&amp;nbsp;we just focus on the bad which is illusory and fleeting, temporary. If I was to say anything it would be for gods sake give yourself an even break lay off, you wouldn't treat some of your "enemies" like that.&lt;br /&gt;It all stems from learned behaviours when you were young. Never being praised or complimented when we behaved or achieved something, but immediately criticized when we stepped just slightly out of line.&lt;br /&gt;If you are a parent reading this, please, please realise the importance of your words when directed at your own kids or any one elses for that matter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on You Tube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-8657922973763605668?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Our insatiable desire to beat ourselves up.'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/8657922973763605668/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/our-insatiable-desire-to-beat-ourselves.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8657922973763605668'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8657922973763605668'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/our-insatiable-desire-to-beat-ourselves.html' title='Our insatiable desire to beat ourselves up.'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-2400505454747805675</id><published>2010-10-07T14:45:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:35:59.814Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>Words That Change Lives</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I've been asked for this by so many people that I thought I might just post it here for all to see and enjoy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Stand before me on the sign of infinity&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;All you of the earth.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;With the granting of the law of provination&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Comes the application of change.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I will give you the key.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And with this knowledge, please realise,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Comes the responsibility of sharing it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I will show you the way&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;It’s very simple.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Throughout the Universe there is order...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;In the movement of the planets, in nature and in the functioning of the human mind.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;A mind that is in its natural state of order, is in harmony with the Universe.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;And such a mind is timeless.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Your life is an expression of your mind.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;You are the creator of your own Universe.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;For as a human being, you are free&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;To will whatever state of being you desire through the use of your thoughts and words.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;There is great power there...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;It can be a blessing or a curse; it's entirely up to you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;For the quality of your life is brought about by the quality of your thinking...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Think about that.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thoughts produce actions...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Look at what you are thinking.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;See the pettiness and the envy and the greed and the fear and all the other attitudes&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;That cause you pain and discomfort.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Realise that the one thing you have absolute control over is your attitude...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;See the effect that it has on those around you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;For each life is linked to all life,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;And your words carry with them chain reactions, like a stone&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;That is thrown into a pond.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If your thinking is in order,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Your words will flow directly from the heart,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Creating ripples of Love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If you truly want to change your world, my friend, you must change your thinking.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Reason is your greatest tool,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;It creates an atmosphere of understanding,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Which leads to caring, which is love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Choose your words with care.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Go forth...with Love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;From the musical "TIME"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;narrated by Sir Lawrence Olivier (as timelord)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-2400505454747805675?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Words That Change Lives'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/2400505454747805675/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/time-stand-before-me-on-sign-of.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2400505454747805675'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2400505454747805675'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/time-stand-before-me-on-sign-of.html' title='Words That Change Lives'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-2902216667167579407</id><published>2010-10-05T11:00:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:37:41.252Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit</title><content type='html'>Mind, body and spirit books, personal development books and self help titles that guarantee change or offer some kind of plan for building a new life, books that offer tools and techniques even tried and trusted methods of&amp;nbsp;timeless wisdom have to be considered anathema and contrary to your established and relied upon course for imbalance and lack of fulfilment. If you are really&amp;nbsp;serious about avoiding constructive and positive change, it might be better to avoid bookshops and libraries completely, sometimes&amp;nbsp;titles are cunningly disguised to lure you into believing it's easy like you just have to&amp;nbsp;"Think and Grow Rich" or you can "Change Your Life in Seven Days". &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-2902216667167579407?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/2902216667167579407/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2902216667167579407'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2902216667167579407'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/10/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-2087340397893361654</id><published>2010-09-29T15:01:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:38:35.348Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>What's the upside to keeping everything as it is?</title><content type='html'>Last week I asked "What's the downside to getting everything you want? This week I'm asking "What's the upside to keeping everything as it is?&lt;br /&gt;You can avoid organising for the future.&lt;br /&gt;You can continue to procrastinate.&lt;br /&gt;You can continue to blame external circumstances (government, spouse, friends)&lt;br /&gt;Continued inaction.&lt;br /&gt;You can get to laze around.&lt;br /&gt;No need to apply yourself.&lt;br /&gt;Stay within&amp;nbsp;your comfort zone.&lt;br /&gt;No need to meet new people.&lt;br /&gt;Don't need to think too hard.&lt;br /&gt;Keep same habits etc.&lt;br /&gt;Have another close look at this question and pay attention to what surfaces for you. For many people,&amp;nbsp;I can guarantee that lurking underneath, in unexamined thought, there are countless reasons to remain exactly as you are.&lt;br /&gt;Once again it is only by bringing these thoughts to the surface and adding light to them that you can take action to move by them and initiate steps toward your bigger goals and dreams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-2087340397893361654?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='What&apos;s the upside to keeping everything as it is?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/2087340397893361654/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/whats-upside-to-keeping-everything-as.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2087340397893361654'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2087340397893361654'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/whats-upside-to-keeping-everything-as.html' title='What&apos;s the upside to keeping everything as it is?'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-3789961427067293455</id><published>2010-09-21T13:31:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:39:28.554Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>What's the downside to getting everything you want?</title><content type='html'>It's widely known that many people are afraid of failure and will ditch many of their hopes and dreams&amp;nbsp;because they&amp;nbsp;fear failure and all that accompanies it. Loss of respect, loss of dignity, loss of self confidence and belief, loss of money, starting over again and on and on.&lt;br /&gt;What many people fail to realise is that&amp;nbsp;an incredibly large percentage of&amp;nbsp;folk suffer from a fear of SUCCESS and all that it means. When I talk about this subject with Coaching Clients or in a Workshop situation,&amp;nbsp;there are often gasps of disbelief and shakes of&amp;nbsp;heads.&amp;nbsp;It can be a challenge to prove this point but not impossible.&lt;br /&gt;Everyone, at least on the surface, would say that they are more than ready to embrace success and all that it brings,but are they?&lt;br /&gt;One single limiting belief about success is all it takes to derail the grandest plans. One single negative&amp;nbsp;subconscious thought about succeeding is all it takes to have you continually treading the mill and repeating the same process over and over again. Only you can decide what success means in each area of your&amp;nbsp;life,&amp;nbsp;relationships, money, career, health etc all&amp;nbsp;have your own&amp;nbsp;personal perspective and as such only you can declare what you want or wish to&amp;nbsp;be, do or have in each.&lt;br /&gt;Here is&amp;nbsp;one way to uncover the blockage and unearth some new thinking. &lt;br /&gt;Ask yourself&amp;nbsp; "What is the downside to having everything the way I want it?"&lt;br /&gt;Don't just gloss over this question, really think it through, then you will&amp;nbsp;find&amp;nbsp;one or more reasons why you may be finding it difficult to achieve your SUCCESS.&lt;br /&gt;eg I'll have to work harder&lt;br /&gt;My friends won't like me&lt;br /&gt;He''ll think I'm being selfish&lt;br /&gt;Not enough time&lt;br /&gt;People will take advantage of me&lt;br /&gt;I'll lose control&lt;br /&gt;I need to be different and change etc&lt;br /&gt;Once these thoughts are brought to&amp;nbsp;the surface and you are aware of them, then it's time to eliminate them by carefully undermining them and creating new affirmitive, supportive thoughts which will enable you&amp;nbsp;to move in the direction of your Goals more freely.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="tp://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-3789961427067293455?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='What&apos;s the downside to getting everything you want?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/3789961427067293455/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/whats-downside-to-getting-everything.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3789961427067293455'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/3789961427067293455'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/whats-downside-to-getting-everything.html' title='What&apos;s the downside to getting everything you want?'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-2350232137585273574</id><published>2010-09-20T11:40:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:41:12.452Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>Successfully Failing</title><content type='html'>A successful Bank President about to retire was interviewed by the media and was asked &lt;br /&gt;"To what do you owe your great success?"&lt;br /&gt;He thought for a moment and answered "That's easy really, it was all down to good decisions"&lt;br /&gt;The interviewer proceeded and asked "What were your good decisions based on?"&lt;br /&gt;The Banker pondered for a moment and said "I put it down to the wisdom gained from experience mostly"&lt;br /&gt;The interviewer pressed for more and asked "Where did that expeience come from?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Banker replied quickly and&amp;nbsp;in an instant and said "That's easy to answer. Bad decisions"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So it should be with life. Too many times we get a bad result and feel as though we've failed, our confidence takes a dent and we give up too quickly, our hopes and dreams die and we settle for second best.&lt;br /&gt;We didn't learn to accept failure as a means to learning and improving, we tend to&amp;nbsp;accept defeat in a venture too readily instead of using the feedback to adjust and build toward our chosen outcome.&lt;br /&gt;Failure, as I see it, is a degree of success, part of the&amp;nbsp;journey on a great big&amp;nbsp;learning curve. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: #00b050; font-family: Papyrus; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;, serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Defeat in a venture should be regarded as a challenge, just as an obstacle should be seen as a disguised opportunity. Adversity should make us even more determined to succeed." Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-2350232137585273574?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Successfully Failing'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/2350232137585273574/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/successful-bank-president-about-to.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2350232137585273574'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/2350232137585273574'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/successful-bank-president-about-to.html' title='Successfully Failing'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-601487685369083026</id><published>2010-09-16T12:59:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T13:14:00.385+01:00</updated><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Avoid&lt;/strong&gt; GOAL SETTING. University studies carried out in the 1970s&amp;nbsp;by Harvard University showed that&amp;nbsp;students who set goals were 97% more likely to attain them than those who did not. Once again it seems very clear that if you&amp;nbsp;stick with the decision to avoid personal growth or self improvement then goal setting &lt;strong&gt;is&lt;/strong&gt; taboo.&lt;br /&gt;Lewis Carroll's words are to be remembered here "If you don't know where you're going any road will get you there", stick with this adage, it is&amp;nbsp;a&amp;nbsp;quote that should never be far from your thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;Some of the greatest achievers and thinkers of our time new that goal setting could bring about change, &lt;strong&gt;but &lt;/strong&gt;they&amp;nbsp;had lots of spare time on their hands.&lt;br /&gt;Goal Setting is a very cruel way of keeping you focused and preoccupied with something that's never going to happen. It was devised&amp;nbsp;to&amp;nbsp;annoy and distract us from Eastenders and X-Factor&amp;nbsp;. If you wish to set goals&amp;nbsp;of any kind this should be restricted to&amp;nbsp;organising the minutiae of&amp;nbsp;family holidays&amp;nbsp;or shopping trips.&lt;br /&gt;Always focus on what you don't want, do not focus on Goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations for any length of time this could lead to&lt;strong&gt; subconsciously&lt;/strong&gt; drawing&amp;nbsp;your goals to you and create unwanted change.&lt;br /&gt;For the most part, allow all your&amp;nbsp;thoughts free unchallenged&amp;nbsp;reign to govern your actions and responses, this way you can carry on blindly into the undefined&amp;nbsp;future.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-601487685369083026?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/601487685369083026/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_16.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/601487685369083026'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/601487685369083026'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_16.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-616617418506395513</id><published>2010-09-10T12:40:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-10T12:46:19.870+01:00</updated><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit</title><content type='html'>Stay seperate. Always identify with the false mind made self, the ego part which&amp;nbsp;encourges you to&amp;nbsp;judge, blame, defend and criticise. It is of great importance that you listen intently to ego driven thoughts to increase that connection and identification with the false self and further entrench your mind in incessant opinionated&amp;nbsp;chatter.&lt;br /&gt;This will keep you occupied for enormous portions of your day, arguing, condemning and&amp;nbsp;comparing, making judgements about others based on what you perceive to be irritating or just plain wrong.&lt;br /&gt;"He is driving like an idiot."&lt;br /&gt;"She's a terrible Mother."&lt;br /&gt;"Her manners are despicable."&lt;br /&gt;"They did this to me."&lt;br /&gt;You can clearly see the necessity of this preoccupation with thought, it allows you to avoid looking within at the space between thought, where the present exists as being or awareness or presence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on You Tube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-616617418506395513?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/616617418506395513/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_10.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/616617418506395513'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/616617418506395513'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_10.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-745746513895371677</id><published>2010-09-09T12:37:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-10T06:28:53.532+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit</title><content type='html'>It is widely stated that you become what you think about all day long. Therefore as a sure fire way to avoid change and any kind of personal growth in the future, it would be wise and indeed necessary that you do not raise your awareness of current thinking patterns. Your present circumstances and environment, whether good or bad,&amp;nbsp;have been brought about by previous thinking and choices and actions&amp;nbsp;based on those thoughts. So it is incumbent upon you to avoid "watching" your thoughts or "listening" to them in order that you can maintain the status quo of&amp;nbsp;leaving all your creativity, imagination&amp;nbsp;and constructive reasoning to conditioned&amp;nbsp;responses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897"&gt;Success365 on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897#!/?ref=home"&gt;Allan on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess"&gt;Allan on You Tube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932"&gt;Positively Alive! on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-745746513895371677?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/745746513895371677/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_09.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/745746513895371677'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/745746513895371677'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_09.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-4135286861975341907</id><published>2010-09-03T11:04:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:47:53.853Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit</title><content type='html'>It is said that "You become like the 5 people you spend most of your time with". This being the case, to ensure non development, growth or change of any kind, always mix with like minded individuals who have no sense of vision or passion for life. Insist on making negative types your bed mates. This way you'll have a ready made group who can say the right thing at the right time just to keep you in place in case you get dreamy ideas above your station. Remembering todays watch phrase at all times "Individual thought or imaginative creativity will set you up for a fall, be safe, just fit in".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-4135286861975341907?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/4135286861975341907/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_03.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/4135286861975341907'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/4135286861975341907'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development_03.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development © A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-8223700587579025198</id><published>2010-09-02T07:25:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:46:53.785Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>365 ways to avoid personal development. A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit.</title><content type='html'>When sleep does not come easy at night, when you find yourself replaying the events of the past day over and over and you turn your focus to the day and week ahead, beginning to get anxious about what may or may not happen. It is essential to have laser like precision, and focus intentionally without interruption at the endless negative possibilities. You must occupy the mind wholly with thoughts of worry, negativity and fear of what the future holds.&lt;br /&gt;At no point should you calm your mind and change focus bringing thoughts of positive possibilities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Copyright ©2010 Allan Wilson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-8223700587579025198?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development. A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit.'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/8223700587579025198/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8223700587579025198'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8223700587579025198'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/09/365-ways-to-avoid-personal-development.html' title='365 ways to avoid personal development. A humorous look at Mind, Body and Spirit.'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-57740735415050202</id><published>2010-08-27T07:23:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:45:48.674Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>What do you expect in return?</title><content type='html'>If you carry anger and resentment, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you are critical and judgemental, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you provide cynicism and suspicion, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you show contempt and disrespect, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you are mean and spiteful, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you harbour envy and jealousy, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you offer apathy and indifference, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you assume scarceness and lack, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;If you lack direction and purpose, what do you expect in return?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you carry love and understanding &lt;br /&gt;If you give praise and compassion&lt;br /&gt;If you have purpose and vision&lt;br /&gt;If you bring relief and charity &lt;br /&gt;If you show manners and courtesy&lt;br /&gt;If you are caring and just&lt;br /&gt;If you offer support and nurture&lt;br /&gt;If you assume abundance and plenty&lt;br /&gt;If you embrace life with all vigour&lt;br /&gt;If you reach out to all others&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What might you expect in return? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Allan Wilson ©2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-57740735415050202?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='What do you expect in return?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/57740735415050202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/what-do-you-expect-in-return.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/57740735415050202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/57740735415050202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/what-do-you-expect-in-return.html' title='What do you expect in return?'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-5567231599805642114</id><published>2010-08-23T09:33:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:44:57.124Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>One step at a time Walking Workshops</title><content type='html'>I consider myself very lucky that I have eventually found work that really inspires me and gets me fired up and passionate. I spent many years doing work that was slowly killing me from the inside out, mentally and physically. I know what it's like to feel trapped and pressured into continuing the slog.&lt;br /&gt;I worked hard to make changes and now I help others make their changes and life transformations, either through Coaching or Speaking at Workshops. I love to inspire "Change" in its many forms. Clients may have Career challenges or Relationship problems and more often than not Money issues.&lt;br /&gt;On many occassions the client just needs an objective question at the correct time to unravel the myriad of previously unchallenged thought processes.&lt;br /&gt;However, years of experience has taught me that not everyone enjoys being Coached One to One and sometimes clients enjoy the anonimity of a group where they can accustom themselves to the Coach and the Process, allowing them the freedom to commit to Coaching as and when they chose and in the manner they chose.  &lt;br /&gt;One such vehicle is our "One step at a Time" Walking Workshop which has been an incredible success for just this reason. Getting outdoors and exercising your body and mind for 2 hours with cross lateral movements is both energising and invigorating. The Coaching element of the walk is designed to provoke new ways of thinking and raise awareness of possiblities and inspire positive change.    &lt;br /&gt;Our next 2 walks are fully booked with 8 attendees on each, one will be held in Drumpellier Country Park next weekend and then Pollok Country Park the weekend after. Our fervent hope is that the weather is good. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-5567231599805642114?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='One step at a time Walking Workshops'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/5567231599805642114/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/one-step-at-time-walking-workshops.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5567231599805642114'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5567231599805642114'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/one-step-at-time-walking-workshops.html' title='One step at a time Walking Workshops'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-5312051223174470967</id><published>2010-08-06T12:07:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:43:42.401Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>What would you change?</title><content type='html'>It's taken some time to get everything organised and really feel that I'm giving my all to my passion of assisting others to live full and self empowered lives, free from the restriction of labels, limiting beliefs, judgements, ego driven insanity and all manner of mind games, self invoked or cast.&lt;br /&gt;This is all I ever wanted, all I ever dreamed of, but was not aware of for many years. My early life was spent in the East End of Glasgow learning not to expect too much. Keep your head down, don't upset the apple cart, be seen and not heard, big boys don't cry and money doesn't grow on trees etc. The media also play an incredible part in our perception of self, I learned from an early age that "I was not meant to succeed", "I was under priviliged", "I came from a deprived area". Not one of these statements, and countless others throughout the years is true, unless I give them truth.&lt;br /&gt;The false mind made self that we call "I" or "me" needs examined in order to uncover the genius within. We all have it, we are sometimes unaware of it.&lt;br /&gt;I offer myself, my family and friends and my clients my genius, my light.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sincerely, Allan  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897 http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-5312051223174470967?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='What would you change?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/5312051223174470967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/new-from-success365.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5312051223174470967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/5312051223174470967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/new-from-success365.html' title='What would you change?'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-484809144948466939.post-8340023344459915760</id><published>2010-08-05T20:08:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T16:42:29.527Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='easterhouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scotland self help'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational speakers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goalsetting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business/career goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glasgow'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self improvement'/><title type='text'>Contraction and Expansion</title><content type='html'>Contraction and Expansion &lt;br /&gt;I've slowed down recently on all fronts including work, It seems that there are many things to be done and much is needing attended to, but I'm enjoying the pace at present and to be quite truthful I think it has released a lot of stress which had built up over the past year. I've been non stop and pushed myself tirelessly to get ahead.&lt;br /&gt;This may be the calm before the storm because I have many plans in the pipeline for the coming year and I'm very excited about that.&lt;br /&gt;The recent lull has provided time to read up and catch up on many of my interests, it has also allowed me time to meditate, programme and goal set. Too much external stimulation in the business world had resulted in not enough internal care and time to soothe and nurture my mental ethos.&lt;br /&gt;It feels like a period of contraction which will lead to expansion and I am thrilled at the prospect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hugs, Allan&lt;br /&gt;http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home&lt;br /&gt;http://www.facebook.com/pages/Success365/120684591305897&lt;br /&gt;http://www.youtube.com/user/AllanWilsonSuccess&lt;br /&gt;http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=212982423932&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/484809144948466939-8340023344459915760?l=www.success365.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/p/fees.html' title='Contraction and Expansion'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/feeds/8340023344459915760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/contraction-and-expansion.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8340023344459915760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/484809144948466939/posts/default/8340023344459915760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.success365.co.uk/2010/08/contraction-and-expansion.html' title='Contraction and Expansion'/><author><name>Allan Wilson, Success365 Author, Speaker and Coach</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09898506426836465534</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KVfpWb0-2xw/TH88x7_h8SI/AAAAAAAAABg/JexUBq-ybYo/S220/self+for+sites+006.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
